From the desk of Dr. Jake...
In my own recovery work, nothing was as powerful as when I addressed head on issues related to my family of origin.
This was especially significant to me because I came from a great family! I hear horror stories every week in my office about parents who perpetrated terrible abuse and neglect. That wasn't my story. I was blessed with good parents who I continue to have a warm, loving relationship with today. However, that didn't exempt me from childhood wounds and trauma that have had a lasting effect into my adult years.
Each year I do a handful of intensives in which I lead adults through the sacred work of discerning and processing through the early wounds they received and messages they believed about themselves. Hearing these stories is truly a holy experience and an honor. Even more awe-inspiring is seeing these individuals courageously confront the lies and defenses they've relied on for decades, let them go, and emerge ready to live vulnerable, authentic lives.
Family of origin work is important for those who have struggled with addiction because, as research has consistently shown, many of the issues that lead to addiction begin in early childhood or even infancy.
Partners of addicts also often benefit from family of origin work after they have received some safety and stabilization from the discovery of their betrayal. Why? Because trauma in adulthood can awake dormant traumas from decades before.
I hope you will join me for this important webinar in which I will give an introduction to family of origin work. My hope is it gives you insight into your own story and courage to take steps toward your own freedom to move forward in peace.